What do I love about her (for)women please?

me and my ex have recently split up and I want her back. Do you think this will help? I am going to get a bag of hershy kisses and peanut butter cups which she likes better, but what I plan to do is cut out a bunch of paper hearts and write a bunch of comments on what I miss and love her for and then glue or tape the peanut butter cups to them and then give her the bag of kisses and tell her I want to give her a bunch of real ones. I have been really clingy since we split up and not really giving her her space but I am scared she wont come back. do you think this will help or make things worse? I was going to put them on her car in the morning before she goes to work so she will find them when she walks out of the house is this a bad idea or a good one? I was also going to get her a bunch of flowers not roses she dont like them any help would be really appreciated.

What do I love about her (for)women please?
This IS a really sweet gesture, but I think that the best thing you can do in this particular situation is to give her space. Nobody want's someone who is clingy, and so, if you want to improve your chances of getting her back, let her go. She knows you love her, she knows you want her back. Now leave her alone. She'll do what she wants to do with this information, when she wants to do it.



I hope it works out for you. You sound like a sweetie... e-mail me if it doesn't, lol. :)
Reply:That's sweet, by acknowleding that u r a F-up, and taking responsibility for your actions, she'll no doubt take you back..... I would
Reply:The effects of your strategy depends on what age bracket your ex-GF is in:



For Teens - what a fairy tale romance, something I saw on local TV!



For 20s - she'd blush and will find it so sweet of you.



For 30s - she might shrug it off, and wait till you try another trick again. She'd prefer to see you more formal and commanding, to see if you have matured enough to realize what had caused the problem in your relationship and that you are seriously making amends.



For 40s - she'd rather not see your dramas. Better be firm, direct to the point, romantic of course, look sincere.
Reply:You didnt mention why she got that Idea of spliting.

If she is comfortable with you why will she split up with you?

Check any mistake from your side...?



If you find mistake in your self, add a sorry card to your preperation.



If she doesnt respond then my advise is not to go behind her any more...just wait and see.
Reply:ARE YOU FAMILIAR WITH THE LAWS IN YOUR STATE CONCERNING STALKING. IF SHE WANTS TO GO,THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO STOP HER. GROW UP!!!!
Reply:get her tulips and good luck im sure she'll go back to u altho chocolate cant lure her back to you
Reply:sorry to say, I did the same with my ex, was his decision to split, and I wanted him, it just wont work. Give her lots of space and time.
Reply:put them onher car instead tht iz sooOooo romantic good luck %26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;hope i helped
Reply:don't do it. Give her time to breath.

If you had not of been clinging then this would have been okay. Just be on your own for a while and heal.
Reply:I would personally find that amazingly cute!
Reply:You are on the right track. I like that idea very much. Also send her the flowers with a nice card or poem expressing how much you miss her. Send the flowers to her job. She will be very flatter. I think she will take you back. Good luck.
Reply:do not be a stalker.... have things delivered to her.... a girl always like receiving gifts at work.........do not sign your name ,tease her.......
Reply:kisses and stuff liek dat are for little kids man.go up to her i tell her strait that u luv her and u'll do anything to get back wit her.
Reply:so sweet. Just talk to her and tell her what she mean to you and how important she is for you. Get her card and flower. If possible hold her hand and look into her eyes and tell how much you love her and miss her and you want to be with her.
Reply:I honestly think it will make things worse...cause if ur already not giving her space....and now ur talking about leaving something in her car...kinda scarey dude...give her space to think and sort things out....absence does make the heart grow fonder!! Good Luck
Reply:If she broke up with you, it probably means she didn't see anything in the relationship. Giving gifts to someone who mabye doesn't want them? That is embarrassing. Give her space, let her stay single for a little while. Mabye she'll decide she liked being with you more that she thought



Chocolates with romantic messeges? Thats coming on a little too strong (no matter how sweet it is!)
Reply:I was getting ready to ask you who broke up with whom? I applaude your romanticism.. that is rare is most guys, but I would be careful offering up too much emotions with this lady. She may not be ready to take you back.. I am sorry... I know it hurts.. I am in your same spot, be very guarded with your heart this time... dont give her a chance to break it again.