Still want my marriage?

I have been married almost 5 years and my husband had a crazy ex and a son with her and 10 days before we married she assaulted the child who was almost 2 at the time and needless to say we spent time in court days before our wedding for temp custudy and got it and the police at our wedding due to her threats i was served papers the day before my wedding I thought it was my flowers ..NO HONEYMOON alot of money 4 years later We won custudy I miscarried from the stress but i delt with that and i love him he's my husband so i took it all. things settled down last year and then we lost each other in the mess and i told him but did nothing and one day I lost it and left with my kids and he let me go I never filed for divorce just wanted him to notice me put me first I got divorce papers from him within weeks I went home and changed so much in myself and wanted us to fight for us like I did for his son but now he said he is not in love with me and does not forsee it working Help !!

Still want my marriage?
Like I said before, when someone gets involved with someone who has kid, it comes with baggage. There will more than likely always be a ex around. And if you are the new wife, unless there is an extremely nice and acceptable ex-wife, she will more than likely have the final say in what goes on in her child's life. Whether you like it or not.

I would say that you two let your marriage fail. Your mistake was not working on your marriage when you notices it failing. Unfortunately you can't make your husband love or want you again. You can try one more time talking with him, but if he doesn't want to make it work, you will just have to move on Good luck.
Reply:You don't have a marriage, and nothing to fight for, even though you might love him. For the good of you and your children you need to move beyond your passions and focus on what is real. Build a real family with your children, in the present.
Reply:I don't feel any of us can help you in changeing your hubbys mind.

Why would you want to fight to be loved by someone who says they DON'T love you?

I can see you not wanting a marriage to end, but why would you want a man who doesn't love you?
Reply:I believe in God. And with him all things are possible. Your husband is being so selfish. And I feel so sorry for you. But pray with all your might that the Lord saves your marriage. But in the meantime if you can try to get some marital counseling. Whether it is through church, private, or sliding scale fee. They could have some answers for you. I hope it works out for you because marriage is supposed to be special. Obviously your husband doesn't feel that way. And it is worth working on if it was worth saying I Do. Point Blank! Many people would kill for the chance to even have the experience of a marriage.